Marriage is one of the passage of life, from time to time we get invited for church weddings. Time to time we get invitation to attend weddings for either our friends or relatives.
Right before marriage couples usually court, during these time couples spend time together, each partner tries to know more about the other. After this period, the couples now set a day that they will officially walk down the aisle.
It is advisable for couples to go for counselling before they get married. Each person in relationship is taught their role in the marriage. They are shown how to solve conflicts and how to live in harmony with each other. The counselling is mostly done by church leaders and also the brides and grooms relatives.
It is normal for couples to experience conflicts and arguments at one some point in their marriage. The husband and the wife start to prefer spending time away from each other. In extreme cases the couple will want to have a divorce.
Divorce should be the last thing for any couple, it should only be considered if nothing seems to work out. It is advisable to seek the services of a marriage counselor. Therapist sessions are conducted how they couples feels it’s best for them.
The marriage counselor in the process of trying to solve your marriage, will begin asking questions like how your marriage got to this point. Telling the couple to remember how their relationship was in the initial stages if something the therapist will tell them. It normal to fine couples drifting from one another due to boredom, pressure and other stressful situations that they might be going through in life.
When people get married their main goal is usually happiness, companionship, satisfaction and support, when it reaches a point where those needs are not being meet, disputes between the couple will start to rise. The counsellor tries to help you be in the place you were before the marital problems started happening.
Most marriage counselors have published their own books about marriage and how you can have a fulfilling marriage. As part of the marriage counselling, couples are advised to read certain books that are recommended by the therapist. On the internet you can also get books on marriage and relationship, people planning to get married soon or are in relationship it is advisable to read them.
After people get married, if they want they can start having babies. Most couples have very busy schedules, they cannot afford to be around their kids all the time, hence most couples end up hiring a nanny to look after the babies. To ensure your kids are under good custody with the babysitter always make sure you have hired a good babysitter.